You’ve been talking to this wonderful European woman for quite some time now and you’re on cloud nine because slowly you feel that your heart is giving in and falling in love. All of a sudden, out of nowhere this woman disappears; no emails, no messages, nothing. Now, your left feeling like you didn’t read the signs right. You feel like you’ve been led on not knowing if you said something wrong or if she just wasn’t that into you.
European Woman And Her Ways
If you’re no stranger to the world of online dating, you’ve probably experienced this situation once or twice. This may not be exactly how it went for you but the “oh, she has a boyfriend” and the “oh, she just wants to be friends” types of situations are still under this category.
In the future, to avoid getting your heart cracked, chipped or broken, here are a few signs that you need to watch out for and what to do about them:
• She tells you about her love problems. You’ve been talking about general things for the past few weeks and then this gorgeous European woman, all of a sudden, tells you about this one guy she’s really interested in. STOP RIGHT THERE. You have been put in the friend zone. What do you do about it? Ask her plain out if she is interested in you in “that” way. There’s really no other way to say it.
• She’s not as flirty as you expected. Did you know that online dating (corresponding online, meeting online, etc.) gives the two people involved a sort of intimate connection with each other? A study has shown that you can feel like you’ve known the person for a while through online dating even if you only met a week ago. Having said this, at some point in your conversation it is inevitable that a few flirtatious lines will be thrown here and there. If this hasn’t happened yet it’s probably because she’s shy or she’s just not that into you. What do you do about it? Flirt with her and see what her reaction is.
• She wants to introduce you to her friend. She’s going to keep you all to herself at the beginning if she really likes you; that’s the main point. She’s going to want more of you – more of your time, more conversations together, etc. When a European woman tells you that she has a friend who she wants to introduce you to, you get the idea. What do you do about it? There are a lot more fish in the sea!
This is the tricky part when it comes to online dating. You can never tell if a person is truly interested in you or if she just wants to be friends, given that you have never spent time with the person physically. There are a lot more signs but just remember to be honest because, most of the time, European women will tell you flat out if they like you or not.
